We also discussed what will be included in the 30-minute ceremony. Lucas and I were hoping to do communion just us two, but the pastor explained it's best for either everyone to do it or no one. We opted with no one since we'll have a mix of religious beliefs in attendance. Pastor will also give a message on marriage for about 7 minutes. We'll light the unity candles, have a couple readings, exchange our own vows and rings, kiss and call it a day!
It's so nice getting some big details worked out. We're 99% sure the ceremony will be at 3:30pm with the reception to follow at 5pm. That's a big one to figure out!